Saying good-bye to Betsy Van Halsema DeKorne

Happy Birthday William J!

Enjoy your ride today, wherever you are. (Photos: mid-1950s, probably Fremont, Michigan.)

The Milliner by Manet

Monday morning artwork

Palace of the Legion of Honor, San Francisco, CA, USA, 1881

Margy Berry 1929-2019

Margy Berry is a remarkable woman. It’s a simple sentence, no dependent clauses, but like Margy honest and straight to the point.

She and Bob opened their home to Susan and I for our wedding in August of 1983. They were not only welcoming and kind in the manner of people who had a genuine concern for us but Margy saw to it that everything went smoothly and made our wedding day as perfect as it could possibly be. We left Roanoke many years ago but every time we would return to visit old friends, Margy and Bob were always there to welcome us with open arms and warm hearts. I thank all the gods that we were able to spend a little time with both of them this past spring.

Time flies and life is short. God speed Margy. And be well Bob. Susan and I think of you both and often. That will never change until we, too, are long gone. . .

Steve, Margie and Bernice

Margie and Bernice

Betsy Van Halsema DeKorne

What can I say? To know her was to love her. It was really that simple.  Tell Uncle Jack we miss him and his tales of derring-do!

1929  l-r: Willemina, Betsy, Dick, Gerard, Bernice

Sept 1944 Nellie and 5 daughters standing under oak tree back yard 219 Myrtle: L-R Bernice, Betsy, Nellie, Helen, Willemina, Marian

Sept 1944 Bernice (left) and Betsy on ferry  to NYC, starting out for Calvin College (Betsy senior, Bernice freshman)

Sept 1944 Bernice and Betsy at Grand Central Station NYC

July 2001 Overview, MI  three Van Halsema sisters, Betsy, Bernice and Marian

Still missed after all these years

Denny Nicola, class of 1965, Champaign High School. Killed in Vietnam 1967. Information. A good friend I turned around one day and realized he was gone before I made my way "down south."

Below: Ronny Lovellette. Class of 1966, Champaign High School. Killed in Vietnam 1969. Information. Do you remember that our last night together in Chicago before you headed off to the Army and I left for the Marines? I certainly do. The last time I saw you. But it was a wild night, eh Ronny?

Remembering Faith VanHalsema

Family gathering at Calvin Church to remember Faith VanHalsema who passed away in Grand Rapids on September 22, 2019, at the young age of 70.

Back to Chicago 5 October

Susie and I spent our final day in England relaxing with friends.

We had one last leisurely breakfast at Richard and Pauline's home in Ellis Fields and then a tour of the Saturday open air market in downtown St. Albans. We also got a tour of the recently refurbished old Town Hall, which now houses the city's museum. You can actually stand in the docket and travel the underground corridor to the jail cells, some of which now serve as bathrooms for the museum and dining facility included in the space.

the old jail

So true

After returning to Ellis Fields Pauline and Richard treated us to a superb lunch of soup, meats and cheeses to fortify us for the long haul back to Chicago. Of course when I say "long haul" I don't mean to compare with those truly long haul journeys that so many truly courageous people undertook in previous centuries, journeys lasting weeks aboard flimsy boats. No, ours took about 8 hours sitting in a chair at 38,000 feet traveling about 550 mph.

Richard and Pauline drove us to Heathrow and we said our goodbyes.

We checked in, breezed through security, as much as one could "breeze through" security at Heathrow, and made our way to the C gate section in Terminal 5. Our flight aboard the megaliner Airbus 380 -- a double decker like the London city buses--  left about a half hour late but it was a smooth flight. We actually had an empty seat in our row which was certainly convenient and we touched down in Chicago a little after 7pm CST.

Airbus 380

We sped through passport control with relative ease, and in fact had a longer wait for our bags. Before long we made our way to the shuttle pickup location and in less than a half hour had checked in at the nearby Comfort Inn where we had the left our car nearly two weeks earlier.

Sunday morning found us up early and on the road. Traffic was incredibly light and we were back in Grand Rapids by 11am.

What a grand trip we had, made even more wonderful by traveling with Richard and Pauline. Their kindness and generosity, not to mention the many moments laughing and carrying on about the absurdities of our respective governments, made this truly a memorable journey. We can't wait to go back.

London 4 October

Today our focus was solely the Royal Botanic Gardens.

After a relaxing (read: leisurely) breakfast at Ellis Fields, Richard, Susan and I headed off for the St. Albans train station -- Pauline would join us a bit later after her exercise class. Anyway, we took the train to West Hampstead where we changed to the London Overground, which took over the Silverlink Metro routes in 2007.

We arrived at Kew Gardens Station and the three of us stopped for coffee at the Kew Greenhouse Café just up the street from the station. Richard thought this would be better than the café in the gardens themselves which he felt was somewhat inferior.  We then strolled up to the gardens' entrance at Victoria Gate.

Kew Greenhouse Café

Once inside we learned to our very great surprise that the works of American glassblowing artist Dale Chihuly were featured in a special exhibit with more than a dozen of his works being scattered around the 326-acres. In fact, the gardens had produced a map dedicated just to this exhibit. We set off to see them all -- or as many as we could find.

general map

Getting oriented

the Palm House

"Paintbrushes"

off to the Waterlily House

"Red Reeds" 2016

And once inside the Waterlily house, where our glasses and camera lenses fogged right up:

"Ethereal White Persian Pond" 2018

strolling toward the next Chihuly

Magpies are everywhere and if I were a state this would be my bird

"Scarlet and Yellow Icicle Tower" 2013

Lucombe Oak, planted 1773

King William's Temple, built 1837

And in front of the temple you can find:

"Neodymium Reeds and Turquoise Marlins" 2019

path from the temple to the Temperate House

"Cattails and Copper Birch Reeds" 2015

Inside the Temperate House are plants from around the world with an upper level promenade accessible by wrought-iron spiral staircases. Scattered amongst the various flora are more than a half dozen different Chihuly creations that blend in wonderfully with their environment.

"Beluga Boat" 2018

"Red Reeds" 2018

"Hebron Vessels" 1999

"Temperate House Persians" 2018

"Opal and Amber Towers" 2018

entrance to the Temperate House

"Lime Crystal Tower" 2006

"Sapphire Star" 2010

After finding most of the Chihuly pieces it was time to meet up with Pauline so we left the gardens and returned to the Kew Greenhouse Café. Pauline had just arrived and the four of us sat down for a lovely lunch of various savory tarts, quiches and pies.

Following lunch we returned to the gardens (tickets are good for the entire day) and, while Richard took Pauline to see the Chihulys, Susan and I explored a little more of the gardens. We thought the Palm House quite nice but, unlike the Temperate House, a bit worn and tired.

"Summer Sun"

inside the Palm House

the Great Broad Walk leading to the Orangery

Japanese Pagoda Tree, planted c. 1760, one of the few oldest trees from the original gardens

"The Hive" - an interesting installation representing an enormous beehive but it left us more puzzled than anything else

So much more to see but it was about time to go. We reconnected with Richard and Pauline at the gift shop. It was while taking in all the stuff promoting horticulture, botany and of course the gardens themselves that Pauline spied a staff member just putting out copies of a book titled London Cemeteries. Naturally I had to have a copy -- fortunately it was small and easily packed.

Leaving the gardens we made our way back up in the direction of the train station, stopping at, where else, the Kew Greenhouse Café for a mid-afternoon tea/coffee break.

Eventually, it was time to get on the train and return to St. Albans where we had a wonderful dinner that evening at the Prae Wood Arms just outside the city.

Returning to Ellis Fields the four of us had a digestif before heading to bed. Our final day spent at Kew Gardens, our last dinner with Richard and Pauline, our penultimate day in Great Britain, it all added up to a thoroughly wonderful time -- today and the past two weeks, we have enjoyed ourselves immensely.